Lover Empath – Chapter 16 (i)

Practical rituals for the Lover Empath

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In this section, practical suggestions are provided that you can utilize for your empath archetype. These suggestions are general so modify them to your specific needs and situation!

What does it mean to have practical rituals as an empath?

Applying what you know to your lived experiences can make all the difference. By incorporating practical methods into your day-to-day choices you can start to manage your life with precision. This can help you not only understand who you are as a person but also help you harness your potential and skills around emotional intelligence.

Your empathic toolbox can be full of ideas to cope, process, set boundaries, and the like. Having a collection of methods that you know will work for you assists you in navigating the daily emotional tide of being a Lover Empath.

Start by creating the right surroundings for your archetype

Studies have shown that color, music, and lighting can impact a person’s mood. For example, medical offices use calming tones of blues and greens to help ease the experience of patients. In addition, these are also energetically healing colors, so they may improve a patient’s recovery.

The subconscious mind picks up on everything, including the subtle unseen waves of feelings and moods. Therefore, it is important to take note of this, so you can curate spaces in which you can fully relax.

For the Lover Empath, you want to create a space where things feel low stimulus and aesthetically pleasing. Clutter and overly busy spaces can put you on edge. In addition, you prefer clean lines, along with gentle and light colors to uplift and bring about a positive vibe.

Creating the right surroundings for yourself is an act of self-love. While you cannot
always make things exactly as you want them, you can try when time and space allow.

Things for you to keep in mind:

  1. Company – who is around you is a prominent element in how you create comfortable surroundings. You like to be around people, but you are easily influenced by the emotions that others are feeling. Therefore, if you are trying to relax, meditate, practice self-care, etc. you want to make sure if people are present they are not going to interfere with your vibration.
  2. Clutter – you are easily overwhelmed by digital and physical clutter. Ensuring you keep files, shelves, and surfaces clear of excess stuff enhances the atmosphere for you. Small piles of paperwork, mail, and to-do lists detract from your self-care by redirecting your focus to business as opposed to having some you-time.
  3. Personal hygiene – your archetype can feel off balance if you are not able to practice your hygiene in the way you want. If you were rushed to get ready in the morning and had to skip a shower, for example, you might feel tired for the rest of the day. Regular rituals around cleanliness help you get into a relaxed state before or after a busy day.

Aesthetic suggestions

Best colors to wear or surround yourself with:

  • Light pink
  • Pastel green
  • Rose
  • Turquoise
  • Silver
  • White
  • Pearl
  • Indigo
  • Sky blue
  • Lavender
  • Orange
  • Taupe
  • Dark brown
  • Mustard
  • Deep purple

Best metals and gemstones to surround yourself with:

  • Silver
  • Rose gold
  • Clear quartz
  • Amethyst
  • Purpurite
  • Amber
  • Rose quartz
  • Rhodochrosite
  • Danburite
  • Opal
  • Diamond
  • Morganite
  • Twin crystals
  • Watermelon
  • tourmaline
  • Moonstone
  • Blue chalcedony
  • Sodalite